Comments for Your Online Relationships Guru http://www.relationshipsguru.com Let Your Relationships Work For You! Tue, 29 Nov 2011 19:45:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by wondergirl7 http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-2/#comment-186098 wondergirl7 Tue, 29 Nov 2011 19:45:13 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-186098 I am a 27 year old female who has never been in a relationship before until recently. I met this great guy about three months ago and we have a great time together and he is so thoughtful and nice to me. However, recently I am getting scared and uncomfortable with the fact that he wants to spend more time with me (we currently see each other about once or twice a week). Does this mean I do not like him enough or that I am just scared? I am a 27 year old female who has never been in a relationship before until recently. I met this great guy about three months ago and we have a great time together and he is so thoughtful and nice to me. However, recently I am getting scared and uncomfortable with the fact that he wants to spend more time with me (we currently see each other about once or twice a week). Does this mean I do not like him enough or that I am just scared?

]]> Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by Mary http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-2/#comment-185776 Mary Mon, 28 Nov 2011 09:38:43 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-185776 i have been with my boyfriend almopst a year now, i love him so much and i am constantly in tears because of us being apart. see he lives a five and a half hour train jorney away from me we see each other maybe every 3 or 4 weeks for a weekend and it hurts so much when i leave. he has said he loves me and never wants to leave me. one minute we spoke about marriage and living togeather but now he keeps telling me he is having doubts about it all. he said he ploves me needs me ect but thinks he wil get twenty years down the line and have regrets about not having a proper single life. i cant lose him i love him so much i think if i did i would want to die ( wouldnt actually do anything to kill myself thouhg) what do i do. i suggested a break i suggested we try a trial separation but what if he dont want me after that seperation? please help me anyone :( Mary i have been with my boyfriend almopst a year now, i love him so much and i am constantly in tears because of us being apart. see he lives a five and a half hour train jorney away from me we see each other maybe every 3 or 4 weeks for a weekend and it hurts so much when i leave. he has said he loves me and never wants to leave me. one minute we spoke about marriage and living togeather but now he keeps telling me he is having doubts about it all. he said he ploves me needs me ect but thinks he wil get twenty years down the line and have regrets about not having a proper single life. i cant lose him i love him so much i think if i did i would want to die ( wouldnt actually do anything to kill myself thouhg) what do i do. i suggested a break i suggested we try a trial separation but what if he dont want me after that seperation? please help me anyone :(

Mary

]]> Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by bree http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-2/#comment-185757 bree Mon, 28 Nov 2011 07:14:55 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-185757 I am going throw a lot I just broke up with the Guy I love becaues nobody likes him not even my mom he lies about Evey thing my mom thinks my friends gate him my sister loves him though and I want to let go but I can't but he has called me names so many almost hit me but has slammed me to the ground he has stolen from my mom like she borrowed a hundred and he said he could from this Guy but she would. Have to pay back two hundred come to find out it went to his dad and I don't know and then I am not able to talk to guys on the phone and the thing is my mom told him not to have sex or touch me inappropriate. But he did not sex but close and when my Mon asked he looked her in her face and swear on his mom. And my mom never liked him and now that this happened it is so much harder I told him to leave me alone and sticking to it is sooooooo hard I truely love him but I don't see a future. At all I see my self drooping out like him and getting pregnet and. That being my life and I want more I want to be a nurse and work with cancer children. And I was excepted to go to a special. School in scottlen and he acted mad at me . I hope I did the right thing because. I realty love him if any advice I need it I am going throw a lot I just broke up with the Guy I love becaues nobody likes him not even my mom he lies about Evey thing my mom thinks my friends gate him my sister loves him though and I want to let go but I can’t but he has called me names so many almost hit me but has slammed me to the ground he has stolen from my mom like she borrowed a hundred and he said he could from this Guy but she would. Have to pay back two hundred come to find out it went to his dad and I don’t know and then I am not able to talk to guys on the phone and the thing is my mom told him not to have sex or touch me inappropriate. But he did not sex but close and when my Mon asked he looked her in her face and swear on his mom. And my mom never liked him and now that this happened it is so much harder I told him to leave me alone and sticking to it is sooooooo hard I truely love him but I don’t see a future. At all I see my self drooping out like him and getting pregnet and. That being my life and I want more I want to be a nurse and work with cancer children. And I was excepted to go to a special. School in scottlen and he acted mad at me . I hope I did the right thing because. I realty love him if any advice I need it

]]> Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by S http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-2/#comment-184771 S Wed, 23 Nov 2011 21:50:11 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-184771 there is this guy i really like and we've been talking for 3 weeks now.. Almost EVERYDAY we skype all the time...and he's really flirty and everything. hes in London right now but hes coming to my country in 20 days!!! and in June im going to London!! and he knows this! On chat he told me that when he comes something important is going to happen. he said he wants to get into a serious relationship... and he said he has A COUPLE of people in mind. :|... i told him that this is not a serious relationship if you have A COUPLE of people in mind... and then he said.. No it's just 1!!!! he keeps saying flirty things INDIRECTLY! Anyway 3 nights ago we were chatting and i said --- MY loooveeeee i gotta go! ill talk to u later... and he said Ok babe! Goodnight! :*... And we haven't talked FOR 3 DAYS!!!! and he hasnt messaged me! he disappeared last week for 2 days and i messaged him saying where are you! i got worried.. and he said sorry babe i wasn't home!... And we haven't talked for 3 days Almost 4 now.. and he dosnt even message me!!! Lastnight i was chatting with his bestfriend and he was online for 2 hours and he didn't even message me. When i was talking to him bestfriend middle of our conversation he said... How are you with ____... and i said what do you mean how are we... were ok... and i told him how we haven't talked and stuff... Do you think HE told him to ask or what?? Please help!!! should i disappear for 2 days and see what happens? ... Or message him!? there is this guy i really like and we’ve been talking for 3 weeks now.. Almost EVERYDAY
we skype all the time…and he’s really flirty and everything. hes in London right now but hes coming to my country in 20 days!!! and in June im going to London!! and he knows this! On chat he told me that when he comes something important is going to happen. he said he wants to get into a serious relationship… and he said he has A COUPLE of people in mind. :| … i told him that this is not a serious relationship if you have A COUPLE of people in mind… and then he said.. No it’s just 1!!!! he keeps saying flirty things INDIRECTLY! Anyway 3 nights ago we were chatting and i said — MY loooveeeee i gotta go! ill talk to u later… and he said Ok babe! Goodnight! :*…
And we haven’t talked FOR 3 DAYS!!!! and he hasnt messaged me! he disappeared last week for 2 days and i messaged him saying where are you! i got worried.. and he said sorry babe i wasn’t home!… And we haven’t talked for 3 days Almost 4 now.. and he dosnt even message me!!!
Lastnight i was chatting with his bestfriend and he was online for 2 hours and he didn’t even message me. When i was talking to him bestfriend middle of our conversation he said… How are you with ____… and i said what do you mean how are we… were ok… and i told him how we haven’t talked and stuff… Do you think HE told him to ask or what??

Please help!!! should i disappear for 2 days and see what happens? … Or message him!?

]]> Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by RAMISH http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-1/#comment-183910 RAMISH Sun, 20 Nov 2011 17:43:04 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-183910 hey i really want disscuss somthing really vry imprtant about this guy....... actually we met just 3 times and you know what he asked me to go to his flat even in 1st meeting and in last meeting when he just said that we can stay just friends.... i just hate all this going in room etc because i am muslim. i asked him to talk to my parents and he said i didn't think about that. it seems that he just want a physicl relation and nothing else he used to say to me THAT YOU ARE REALLY FROM 70'S . but i am muslim and i don't want to lie to my parents r do anything due to which i can't make eye contact with my parents. He is not the right guy for me. i gifted him in our meeting, a tedy bear holding a heart on which written LOVE OF MY LIFE and a perfume he accepted that very warmly. Actually he asked me to meet him one last time to fill all grudges and gaps between us when i already text him that we can stay just friends, if u want otherwise lets end it here. then he replied ok we can stay friends and please meet me just as a friend. And when i meet him he was continuesly looking at me and saying you are soooo cute and adorable and asked me to give him a warm hug and go to his room which i just hated and refused but on forcing him i hugged him for a second he wanted more but i pushed him back and refused, on which he said I DON,T KNOW WHO DID YOUR BRAIN WASHING AGAINST ME and i said look I REALLY DON'T WANT TO BE YOUR GIRL FRIEND IF U REALLY WANT ME THEN PLEASE TALK TO MY PARENTS THIS IS NOT THE RIGHT TIME TO DO ALL THIS I HAVE NO RIGHT TO COME WITH YOU IN YOUR ROOM AND HUG YOU. He didn't said to me ever that he love me he just used to say that I LIKE U. When in the last meeting i asked him that WHAT DO YOU WANT NOW? he said lets be just friends. And i were really hurted because a person asking me to hug him just before few mins now saying lets stay friends. And i said WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME ALL THIS BEFORE? on which he said YOU DIDN'T ASKED IT BEFORE. i asked him YOU HUGGED ME JUST AS A FRIEND? And said WHEN???? i was just shocked and badly hurted and then realized he is really not a serious man he just want one thing from me. and he told me that he had stayed with 7 girl friends before me. He was 29, mature, successfull, well educated person i didn't expected this from him. I refused to stay his friend and in contact with him he forced me alot but still i didn't . he asked me alot that lets stay friends we will hangout and etc etc I REFUSE, he said ok just PHONE FRIENDS, I REFUSED, he asked me whats the big deal in it i said I WAN'T TO FORGET YOU, YOU ARE THE BIGGEST AND WORST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE. He asked me to look too him one last tim but i didn't. I miss him because i was sincere with him. And i texted him one last time in which i wrote that. " THANKS A LOT FOR LIKING ME THEN CHEATING ME, HURTING ME AND FOR ALL LIES AS WELL. I THOUGHT THAT YOU ARE DECENT AND EDUCATED GUY, NOT LIKE OTHERS BUT YOU KNOW YOU ARE FAR BAD THEN OTHERS. YOU JUST WANTED ONeTHING FROM ME, PHYSICAL RELATION, I REALLY DIDN'T EXPECTED THIS FROM YOU. THANKS A LOT BECAUSE I HAD LEARNED THE WORST AND BIGGEST EXPERIENCE OF LIFE FROM YOU. BOYS DON'T DESERVE GIRL'S TRUST AND SInCERITY. AND IF U DON,T MIND CAN I MAKE A REQUEST? I DON'T THROW MY GIFTS IN DUSTBIN, REALLY BOUGHT FOR YOU WITH TRUE LOVE. I KNOW YOU ARE AGAIN THINKING THAT I SAID TO WON'T CONTACT YOU AGAIN BUT NOW SENT YOU A TEXT, DON,T WORRY ITS MY LAST TEXT TO U , JUST DELETING YOUR NUMBER FROM MY CELL. BYE" he didn't replied a single word of my text. NOW KINDLY TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO?? i love him but he is flirt and not a good guy he used to insult me too sometimes on text. its a day we finished everything. will he contact me? missing me? he really didn't having a soft corner for me? will in future he get sincere feelings for me???? please reply soon i am waiting :( hey
i really want disscuss somthing really vry imprtant about this guy……. actually we met just 3 times and you know what he asked me to go to his flat even in 1st meeting and in last meeting when he just said that we can stay just friends…. i just hate all this going in room etc because i am muslim. i asked him to talk to my parents and he said i didn’t think about that. it seems that he just want a physicl relation and nothing else he used to say to me THAT YOU ARE REALLY FROM 70′S . but i am muslim and i don’t want to lie to my parents r do anything due to which i can’t make eye contact with my parents. He is not the right guy for me. i gifted him in our meeting, a tedy bear holding a heart on which written LOVE OF MY LIFE and a perfume he accepted that very warmly. Actually he asked me to meet him one last time to fill all grudges and gaps between us when i already text him that we can stay just friends, if u want otherwise lets end it here. then he replied ok we can stay friends and please meet me just as a friend. And when i meet him he was continuesly looking at me and saying you are soooo cute and adorable and asked me to give him a warm hug and go to his room which i just hated and refused but on forcing him i hugged him for a second he wanted more but i pushed him back and refused, on which he said I DON,T KNOW WHO DID YOUR BRAIN WASHING AGAINST ME and i said look I REALLY DON’T WANT TO BE YOUR GIRL FRIEND IF U REALLY WANT ME THEN PLEASE TALK TO MY PARENTS THIS IS NOT THE RIGHT TIME TO DO ALL THIS I HAVE NO RIGHT TO COME WITH YOU IN YOUR ROOM AND HUG YOU. He didn’t said to me ever that he love me he just used to say that I LIKE U. When in the last meeting i asked him that WHAT DO YOU WANT NOW? he said lets be just friends. And i were really hurted because a person asking me to hug him just before few mins now saying lets stay friends. And i said WHY DIDN’T YOU TELL ME ALL THIS BEFORE? on which he said YOU DIDN’T ASKED IT BEFORE. i asked him YOU HUGGED ME JUST AS A FRIEND? And said WHEN???? i was just shocked and badly hurted and then realized he is really not a serious man he just want one thing from me. and he told me that he had stayed with 7 girl friends before me. He was 29, mature, successfull, well educated person i didn’t expected this from him. I refused to stay his friend and in contact with him he forced me alot but still i didn’t . he asked me alot that lets stay friends we will hangout and etc etc I REFUSE, he said ok just PHONE FRIENDS, I REFUSED, he asked me whats the big deal in it i said I WAN’T TO FORGET YOU, YOU ARE THE BIGGEST AND WORST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE. He asked me to look too him one last tim but i didn’t.
I miss him because i was sincere with him. And i texted him one last time in which i wrote that. ” THANKS A LOT FOR LIKING ME THEN CHEATING ME, HURTING ME AND FOR ALL LIES AS WELL. I THOUGHT THAT YOU ARE DECENT AND EDUCATED GUY, NOT LIKE OTHERS BUT YOU KNOW YOU ARE FAR BAD THEN OTHERS. YOU JUST WANTED ONeTHING FROM ME, PHYSICAL RELATION, I REALLY DIDN’T EXPECTED THIS FROM YOU. THANKS A LOT BECAUSE I HAD LEARNED THE WORST AND BIGGEST EXPERIENCE OF LIFE FROM YOU. BOYS DON’T DESERVE GIRL’S TRUST AND SInCERITY. AND IF U DON,T MIND CAN I MAKE A REQUEST? I DON’T THROW MY GIFTS IN DUSTBIN, REALLY BOUGHT FOR YOU WITH TRUE LOVE. I KNOW YOU ARE AGAIN THINKING THAT I SAID TO WON’T CONTACT YOU AGAIN BUT NOW SENT YOU A TEXT, DON,T WORRY ITS MY LAST TEXT TO U , JUST DELETING YOUR NUMBER FROM MY CELL. BYE”
he didn’t replied a single word of my text.
NOW KINDLY TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO?? i love him but he is flirt and not a good guy he used to insult me too sometimes on text. its a day we finished everything. will he contact me? missing me? he really didn’t having a soft corner for me? will in future he get sincere feelings for me????
please reply soon i am waiting :(

]]> Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by sanjana http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-1/#comment-182459 sanjana Sun, 13 Nov 2011 10:20:35 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-182459 me and my boyfriend were in a long distance relationship 2 years back!for a year it was going on well and there were chances of me moving into the same city!but because of some problems i couldnt and he started ignoring me!he sated other girls also in this past 1 year!whenever i cried and begged him to come back he asked me to wait!now that i am so close to moving into his city he says he doesnt want me and that he doesnt want to get serious with anyone and asked me to move on!at this point of time i have complete shattered down and i dont know what i should do and why he decided to give up on me!now i am not even sure if i should move to his city or not for my college!!i want him back anyhow!please help! me and my boyfriend were in a long distance relationship 2 years back!for a year it was going on well and there were chances of me moving into the same city!but because of some problems i couldnt and he started ignoring me!he sated other girls also in this past 1 year!whenever i cried and begged him to come back he asked me to wait!now that i am so close to moving into his city he says he doesnt want me and that he doesnt want to get serious with anyone and asked me to move on!at this point of time i have complete shattered down and i dont know what i should do and why he decided to give up on me!now i am not even sure if i should move to his city or not for my college!!i want him back anyhow!please help!

]]> Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by Cheyenne http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-1/#comment-180151 Cheyenne Sun, 30 Oct 2011 22:16:23 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-180151 My name is cheyenne, and i am fourteen year's old. i am dating a seventeen year old named ethan. Ethan, he is a strong believing christian, he had been in a strong christain family all his life; as where i haven't been that lucky, my mom a phsyco, and my dad a drug addict, to assamed of himself to admit it to hid family. Over this last summer i had started to hangout with the wrong people, and got in trouble. i straightened myself out and went to church. And that is where i meet ethan, i have feel in love with him over the past couple of month's, he has brought me to god. But niether my parent nor my sister new about him intill last night when my mother walked into my room and he was sitting on the couch. i was going to tell her the next day. But she had grounded me, and has no trust in me. what can i do to get them to trust in me and let me see ethan? My name is cheyenne, and i am fourteen year’s old. i am dating a seventeen year old named ethan. Ethan, he is a strong believing christian, he had been in a strong christain family all his life; as where i haven’t been that lucky, my mom a phsyco, and my dad a drug addict, to assamed of himself to admit it to hid family. Over this last summer i had started to hangout with the wrong people, and got in trouble. i straightened myself out and went to church. And that is where i meet ethan, i have feel in love with him over the past couple of month’s, he has brought me to god. But niether my parent nor my sister new about him intill last night when my mother walked into my room and he was sitting on the couch. i was going to tell her the next day. But she had grounded me, and has no trust in me. what can i do to get them to trust in me and let me see ethan?

]]> Comment on Advice on Relationships by Lia-duvall http://www.relationshipsguru.com/advice-on-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-179014 Lia-duvall Sun, 23 Oct 2011 14:04:13 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=732#comment-179014 my boyfriend of two years and the father of my son had a one night stand with another woman he kept it from me for a year until i found out that she had become pregant and had twins..he had no knowledge that they babies were his,we soon got the dna results back that they were his kids..im tryin to put my relationship and family back together but i just dont know if im making the right decision for me..need some advice please!! my boyfriend of two years and the father of my son had a one night stand with another woman he kept it from me for a year until i found out that she had become pregant and had twins..he had no knowledge that they babies were his,we soon got the dna results back that they were his kids..im tryin to put my relationship and family back together but i just dont know if im making the right decision for me..need some advice please!!

]]> Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by kelsey http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-1/#comment-178943 kelsey Sun, 23 Oct 2011 03:48:49 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-178943 i have liked this guy for 3 years. last year he told me he liked me but nothing happened. we would text every night past midnight and then he just stopped. he goes to a new school now and i dont get to see him. again he wont text me back, how do i get him to text back? i have liked this guy for 3 years. last year he told me he liked me but nothing happened. we would text every night past midnight and then he just stopped. he goes to a new school now and i dont get to see him. again he wont text me back, how do i get him to text back?

]]> Comment on Need Relationship Advice? Top 3 Chat Rooms to Check Out by Emily http://www.relationshipsguru.com/need-relationship-advice-top-3-chat-rooms-to-check-out/comment-page-1/#comment-178233 Emily Tue, 18 Oct 2011 23:55:07 +0000 http://relationshipsguru.com/?p=532#comment-178233 So everyone has that person from their dreams right? the guy who is exactly what they are looking for. well you can imagine my surprise when my dream guy moved to my school. Thats right hes got it all, the look, the athleticism, the smarts, and he s the right age. i couldnt believe my luck! But one problem... he doesnt even know i exist!!!! i messaged him on facebook but we were never on at the same time so we never had a real conversation. i gave him my number but no response. I know this probably means he isnt interested and i should just move on but i cant bring myself to give up on the guy ive been literally dreaming about before i even met him!!! So everyone has that person from their dreams right? the guy who is exactly what they are looking for. well you can imagine my surprise when my dream guy moved to my school. Thats right hes got it all, the look, the athleticism, the smarts, and he s the right age. i couldnt believe my luck! But one problem… he doesnt even know i exist!!!! i messaged him on facebook but we were never on at the same time so we never had a real conversation. i gave him my number but no response. I know this probably means he isnt interested and i should just move on but i cant bring myself to give up on the guy ive been literally dreaming about before i even met him!!!

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