Do You Know You Can Choose Who You Want In Your Life?

March 31, 2008 by  
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In life, each person has their own destinies, potential and freedom of choice. And the combination of all three can determine what kind of life you will lead. Moreover, the three are also associated with the relationships with others that you choose and have.

A person’s destiny is his/her opportunity to fulfill his/her life’s purpose. Everyone is born into this world with a purpose. And it is a predetermined circumstance that will manifest at some point in life. Though it is not proven that we have predestined challenges, but we do face challenges every single day. And the way we react and response to these challenges are important because they can path out the way our lives are lived and the relationships that we have.

Each person also has his/ her own potential where, when we are challenged, we have the ability to either solve the problem or worsen the situation. Our potential determines how we hurt others or how we enhance our relationships with others. And everyone has a choice to decide what is best for themselves. And because it is our lives that we are leading, we need to choose whom we engage with and decide for ourselves the paths that we take with the person.

Hence, the people that we want and who are in our lives are dependent on whether he/she helps to fulfill our purpose in life. For instance, people meet their significant half because he/she helps to fulfill their needs for companionship and also their purpose of reproducing their offspring and also having a married life.

Moreover, it is dependent on our potential to respond to the opportunities that we have to interact with our potential relationship partners. Our actions and behaviour can either attract/ deter someone from getting to know us better.

Lastly, our freedom of choice determines who ends up in our lives. We can choose to either maintain the relationship and develop it further or just well, let it die away. Our choice ultimately determines if we fulfill our destiny as well. Moreover, who we want in our lives are dependent on the choices and decisions we make and hence, it is important that in selecting a partner, we must always be cautious when exercising our freedom of choice because we don’t want to end up regretting a choice that we made.

Well, I hope that you can think about the three factors that determine who ends up in your life and exercise your freedom of choice wisely, especially if it is for a long term relationship partner whom you are going to spend your life with. All the best!

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